Relationship Problems is something all of us face, there shouldn’t be any doubt in anyone’s minds that relationship problems is something that affects us all. So then, is there a way we can understand what causes these problems and can use this understanding to improve all our relationships? Yes there is, and this post is going to tell you just that!
Most often when we speak of relationship problems, the key relationship spoken of is the man to woman, woman to man, boyfriend girlfriend, girlfriend boyfriend relationship.
But truly relationship problems are far more than just these, all the relationships that we have from our birth, i.e. the relationship to our parents, siblings, friends, spouses, children, their spouses, grand children.
All these relationships affect your personality, and you do affect all their personalities.
An then you have your relationship with the higher power, your faith, your god, or whatever you believe as to be the creator of the Universe.
And last but not the least, we need to talk about the most important relationship, i.e. the relationship of yourself with yourself. Is that a surprise?
If so let me tell you, this relationship is important for all your relationships but it is the most under-rated and under-spoken relationship! Consider for e.g. If one is not Happy with oneself can they be happy with others?
What is the Cause of Relationship Problems?
This is a complex topic, hence I am going to use some examples of our own lives to illustrate and explain this.
When we are Born
We are all born in this world as a baby, most often the baby is the mothers universe and most loved by all, and the father earns and fends for the baby, while the mother feeds her/him, takes care of her/him, nurtures and protects the baby
At this point (as a baby) one is totally blissful, and sees the kind goddess and god, and best friends in ones mother and father.
When we become Teens
But then as we grow up, things start changing, as we start turning 12 – 13, we start developing an identification of our own, we start developing a mind of our own, we want things in our own way and most of all we want the freedom to do whatever we want.
But then at this point the Parents want the kids to be safe and have do’s and don’ts, mostly the parents want to do this as they want the children to be protected.
But when they do so, they become the biggest villains of our life. Some of us understand this, while some of us endup hating their parents for doing this. This is the beginning of the relationship problem with ones parents.
With our Boyfriends or Girlfriends
- Brotherly Church
- Inside look
- Outside look
- Another look
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